So, last year I did a post on not wanting to date wimpy guys.
Wowzer! I received a lot more feedback than I expected to. While I agree with most of you on what you said, I couldn’t help but feel slighty insulted and attacked by one of my readers.
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He’s just too nice for me!
Ok me and my girlfriends frequently have the discussion of what we’d like in a mate and what we don’t. A common theme of things we don’t like is the guy that is too nice! You know the guy who is overly emotional, way too into the relationship before it begins, gives you thousands of awkward compliments, and blows you phone up more than ten times within an hour period. Of course we don’t want to date a jackass, but the truth of the matter is that I would rather date a jackass over a nice guy any day!
Shocking right? No! I’m not the only girl in the world who feels this way. Ever heard the phrase nice guys finish last? It exist for a reason. The reason is that women, although we never say it, don’t want to be impressed. I’m not America Idol you can stop performing! With nice guys it feels like they are trying so hard to impress us or stand out from other guys that it is all an act. An act to show us that they can be Mr. Right and more! The truth is they only end up being Mr. Right Now… Until I Get a Boyfriend or My Best Male Bud!
Here’s the thing women just want sincerity. So anything that seems to be too extreme we don’t like and I’m unapologetic for that!
