Quiz: Are you addicted to love??

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Are you addicted to love?

Answer yes or no to the below questions

1. Have you ever gotten out of one relationship just to get into another?

2. Do you have a tendency to control you mate?

3. Do you feel worthless if you’re not in a relationship or your partner isn’t around?

4. Is your relationship with you parents broken or non-existent?

5. Are you often depressed?

6. Do you avoid rejection or abandonment at any cost?

7. Do you perceive attraction, attachment, and sex as basic human needs, on a par with food and water?

8. Do you feel incomplete if you are not in a relationship?

9. Is it difficult for you to trust in a relationship?

10. Do you confuse sexual attraction with love (ex. love at first sight) ?

If you answered yes to more than 3 of the questions above you might be addicted to love. Sure it sounds nice, but love addictions are very serious and often dangerous things.

In most cases, love addictions are the cause for many suicides, murders, stalking, and rapes. Love addictions don’t really get much attention because most people don’t think that they’re real. However, they are in more ways than one.

Individuals can become consumed with a fantasy world and will scheme to obtain that romantic high. The questions listed above are symptoms of love addiction and most are related to co-dependency and intimacy dysfunctions, that could be a result of  sexual/emotional abuse or childhood abandonment.

If you feel like you could be addicted to love, but want to know more information about it check out these urls: http://www.recovery-man.com/loveaddict.htm & http://www.cbn.com/family/DatingSingles/newlife_LoveAddiction.aspx

Don’t Get Mad Get….

Do I really need to finish that statement? We all know it and we’ve all heard it before, but would you actually do it? Is it really worth it to make him/her feel the way they made you feel? Do you actually think after you get your revenge he’ll stay with you? What if you end up making one of the biggest mistakes of your life? These are all questions that people  rarely ask themselves when in the early moments of finding out their mate has been deceitful. However, these are all the questions that people should ask themselves because sometimes the consequences of getting revenge on a mate can be degrading, despicable, evil, and darn right unspeakable. So the biggest question remains is it worth it? Is this the only way your heart can heal or will you end up the one feeling heartbroken and used? Hmm the moral dilemma many of us face all in the name of getting revenge. Revenge can be a very addicting thing. Revenge can suck you in and totally consume your life to being all about hurting someone else. Someone who you claim inflicted the worst pain on you that you ever felt so your only wish is to get him back. Well..wish granted! Below listed are some of the ways you can get back at your lying no-good mate morally and rottenly.